Margaret's Birth Story

 Hello Everybody! Sorry about the lack of posts lately! As you know I just had a baby girl who is now 3 months old! Juggling two has been very difficult but worth it. But one of the things you will notice with two kids is the lack of time you seem to have. So I am FINALLY getting to write my birth story and truthfully I hope I remember a lot of it! :) So without further ado: Margaret's Birth Story.

   So with both my pregnancies I have been late. But this time around I was extremely grateful that I was late! There were so many things going on at the time that I had to wait for before I could have Margaret. For example: Tyler was taking the bar exam on February 27th and 28th. My due date was March 9th. The bar exam was in Salt Lake City which is a 3 hour drive and if I went into hard labor during the bar exam I was going to be on my own because there would be no way to contact Tyler or for him to get home. He HAD to be there for that test. So I was really grateful I missed that.
    Then my sister-in-law got married  two days before  my due date. I was one of her bridesmaids and everyone kept telling me I had to wait until the day was over and then I could have Margaret. Thankfully I missed that one too. I am sure because of all the standing and walking that is why I started labor that day. It was just little pains about 10 minutes apart. I made it through the day. On Sunday I continued to have pains and so I went walking which sped up my pains to 7 minutes apart. But once I stopped walking they would slow down.  I even had a conversation with my little one. Which basically was me trying to talk her into coming into this world as soon as possible. Finally  Monday came and I  had an OBGYN appointment that day. He stripped my membranes and we decided to induce me on the 12th of March that Thursday. I was so happy and relieved! I remember thinking FREEDOM! I finally get to meet my little lady!
  So on Tuesday night Tyler took me out to a nice steak place in town since we figured that would be the last time we would have some alone time in awhile. It was delicious! After that Tyler tried to talk me into seeing a late movie. But knowing I was pretty tired and wanting to keep up my strength for later in the week I decided that we should just go home and go to bed. So we went to bed early. On one of my trips to pee about 4:00am I remember thinking that the contraction I had was a little harder than earlier so I laid in bed for a little while. Then at 4:30 I could no longer lay in bed because of the pain. So I started monitoring my contractions. They were 4 minutes apart for about a minute. I woke Tyler at that time and we labored together. At 5 I took a shower and then we got our things together and left for the hospital at 5:30.
      One thing I will say about labor the second time around is it hurts much worse than the first time. With William I was able to wait until I was transitioning until I got an Epidural but this time I wanted it right away! The only problem was the anesthesiologist had a c- section for another patient in a half an hour of me. So we were trying to get an IV in so he could give me the Epidural before he went in for the C-section. Sadly that didn't come to pass.  I had to get an IV in first before I could have an Epidural.My veins are basically invisible. They ended up poking me 12 times in each arm and hand until they finally got the IV in. The worst part was I had to have contractions laying down trying to stay still so they can poke me with a needle sometimes digging for the vein. It was awful. They finally got this infrared camera/projector that would show the nurses where my veins were. Because of that they were able to get the IV in. But sadly because it took so long we had to wait for the anesthesiologist. So they gave me some drugs. I don't know what they were but they put me to sleep and the pain subsided.  They also made me loose my snack I had earlier but the pain was gone so it was worth it. Then the anesthesiologist came in and gave me an Epidural. Which was great. :) At this point I was 5 CM but not progressing so they gave me Petocin  (which I didn't even feel the harder contractions because of the epidural! HALELUJAH!!!)  All of a sudden they were telling me it was time to push. So I pushed for a total of 10 minutes and out came our beautiful baby girl! 9 pounds 3 ounces at 10:30am March 11th. She was so precious and all ours.
      I forgot how wonderful the feeling after you have a baby is. They are just so sweet and the love that you have just overwhelms you. I remember thinking how tiny she was (even though everyone told me how big she was for a baby). But I guess when you have a two year old at home they seem so tiny! :) Our lives have been so complete since. I couldn't imagine life without her. So there you go. There is my birth story! :) I look back and think how lucky I have been to have both William and Margaret a day before my scheduled induction. I guess I know the secret to having babies if they are stubborn.  Just schedule an induction. ;)

The zoo, St. Emilion, and Arcachon

   So I finally found a chunk of time to finally write about our actual time here in Arcachon. The first day arrived we were so exhausted we really didn't do anything. But that next day was a Sunday and a beautiful sunny day! So that afternoon we decided to go to the beach and just see what it was like. Once we got there we couldn't believe it! The sand was so soft, there were great sea shells, and since Arcachon is in a bay we didn't have to worry about huge waves that would take William out to sea.  We let William wade in the water and at one point a little wave came and knocked him  off his feet! I caught him in time so he didn't drown but he basically got soaked. His face was priceless. :) I on the other hand made it my goal to collect as many sea shells as possible. My own little free souvenir from this place. So basically that has been the only sunny day since we have been here. That Monday through Saturday it rained and poured and rained some more. BLEG. William and I were going crazy being coped up in our hotel room when we were in FRANCE and there are AWESOME THINGS TO SEEE! So thankfully our friends we came here with called us up and asked us if we wanted to go to the Aquitaine zoo. So obviously we went. We were really worried because it looked like a tiny zoo and no one was there ( probably due to the rainy weather. I guess we are just some crazy American people!) We were SO glad we went though! We were so much closer to the animals then we would have been in the states! We couldn't believe it! They also had a good verity of animals and there weren't so many that we were overwhelmed either. We saw a baby orangutan right next to the glass. Heck if the glass wasn't there we could have touched the sweet thing. Anyway. It was amazing. And of course William and Tyler liked it too. It was a great thing to do with kids.  

    That night we decided to go on a date. (It was our first one in about 3 months) We went to a beachfront restaurant and it was wonderful except for a few things. For our appetizer Tyler got basically oyster on the half shell, wells (sea snails) , shrimp, and a baby lobster. I couldn't really eat anything other then the shrimp and lobster. I have texture issues with the other two. Then Tyler talked me in to getting Fois Gras. Which is a French delicacy.  It's basically fattened goose liver whipped into a spread. Then you spread it on toast with fruit on top. It was GROSS. Definitely not my thing. The whole time I kept thinking all I am eating is fat. Ugh. The main dishes went much better. Tyler got salmon and I got duck breast. (I can't get enough of duck! Why don't we eat it in the states again?) Then of course creme brule. The best I have ever had.

   The next day we decided to take a train to St. Emilion. It was one of the best decisions we could have made on this trip. It was FANTASTIC! Basically St. Emilion is a medieval city from the 12th Century known for limestone. The city itself has catacombs and tunnels under the city where they mined the stuff. So naturally the whole place is made out of limestone. The cobblestones, buildings, and city gates. It felt like we stepped back in time. Around the city were acres and acres of vineyards with beautiful chateaus and unique wines to try (which we didn't do obviously because of religious views). The only downside is it was at the top of this hill and the train station was at the bottom of the hill. The hike was a little tiring but definitely worth it. One of the first things we did when we got there is go up into the citadel.  It had tiny stair ways with spiral staircases to get to the top. (which Tyler had a little bit of trouble with with a baby carrier) But once you got to the top it was gorgeous. You could almost see to the ocean. They originally built it to protect themselves from the Aquitaine kingdom (including Arcachon) from attacks. After that we found a cute little restaurant to eat lunch. Pork kabobs with french fries and zucchini salad. So good. After that we went on the tour of the catacombs. We learned about the religious leader that started the city who was actually originally from the north of France. He liked solitude and so he lived in a cave in St. Emilion. (before it was St. Emilion) Well he performed miracles of healing to those around him and once the word reached people St. Emilion was born. We saw the cave where he lived and he must have really hated people because it was cramped and little with a little spring and bed carved out of stone and a chair carved out of stone. Anyway, after that we went under the city where the rich and famous were originally buried in the catacombs. (no bones now sadly ) Then we went under the giant church into a separate little chapel under the main church. All carved out. There were flying buttresses with angels ahead carved out of stone. Some paintings and of course the whole place was still in working order. Heck people get married there! (?) It was a little spooky but pretty cool. After that we looked at the main church with it's stained glass windows and 12th century paintings on the walls. It was gorgeous. I wasn't as overwhelmed as Notre Dame but it was almost calmer and more secluded which added to it's beauty. Then we looked at the abbey where the nuns made the recipe for macaroons. Sadly it is all collapsed now but it was still worth seeing. We ordered some of those macaroons and they were delicious. Almond and lemon. mmmm. Next we saw the old city wall and of course the city gate as we left town. If you ever come to France I would make this City a PRIORITY! I just couldn't believe how well preserved everything was and how gorgeous the landscape was.

   Ever since this little day trip we have just been hanging around Arcachon. We went to the Dune de Pyla which was pretty cool. Basically it's the biggest sand dune in Europe. BTW there are stairs which we took on the way up but not down. Went to the beach again, poked our head in some cool shops. I got William some cool wooden trains and train puzzles and Tyler got a knife with Arcachon carved in the handle. (I on the other hand have not found anything yet. But I will for sure! ;) ) We have been eating LOTS and LOTS of pasteries, ice-cream, and crepes (don't forget baguettes!). In fact we have been eating so much good food I'm pretty sure I have gained at least ten pounds! It doesn't matter that I have been walking everywhere! The food it just SO GOOD! Well anyway I think that's everything for now. Until next time! 

Notre Dame, The Louvre, and our Journey to Arcachon

        Hello All! Time  to update the rest of our time in Paris as well as our journey to Arcachon. When I last left off I had described my experiences on the Eiffel Tower. The day that I finished my last post we decided to visit Notre Dame. We took the metro from our hotel to a stop nearby and walked to the square. We got to cross the bridge over the river (if you didn't know Notre Dame is on an island) and get a fantastic view of it. As we approached we noticed there was a giant tent inside the square. Later we found out that they were having a bread competition. Sadly the prices were so high we decided not to buy any of the contestants delicious breads but it was fun looking at the different varieties of breads and the different names for the bakeries. Once you exited the tent there was a long line that you had to wait in to get inside of Notre Dame. The line seemed to move pretty quickly and so it wasn't a long wait. The only downside is the area is known for pickpocketers. So we had to be on our guard. There was a strange man that randomly got in line between Tyler and I and Tyler thought it suspicious. So Tyler put his hand in his pocket with his money and ID in it and the man left. We are pretty sure he was trying to rob us but thankfully Tyler lived in Europe for two years and so he was looking out for that. In front of us was a man from the states that was an architect. It was really interesting talking to him and hearing about his travels through Europe to of course study architecture. When we finally got close enough to see the outside of the building I was astounded. I couldn't believe the detail of the peoples faces, even the door had major detailing. I didn't realize what I was about to walk into until I crossed the threshold of the building. It was more beautiful then the pictures that I have seen that depicted it. People spoke in hushed voices and so it helped with the beauty of the place. The building was huge! As we slowly walked the perimeter of the chapel the thought hit me "This was made to worship God". I then thought in my mind how they used the best things they could at the time to show God that they loved Him. It was a humbling thought especially since I am not catholic. The stained glass window were fantastically detailed and we even sat for a minute just looking around. After we walked around Notre Dame we decided we need to have a crepe for a pre dinner snack. We got lost trying to ask French speakers in English where the closest creperie was. Finally Tyler saved the day again and found us one. We decided to have a savory crepe with egg, ham, and cheese. It was the best thing I have ever eaten. I am now a crepe-a-holic. I love them and CAN'T GET ENOUGH!
        The next day Tyler's Father came into town which I was very grateful for because I got to watch another little boy William's age which his mother was translating for class. William and Wayne ( Tyler's dad) had so much fun at the park playing peek-a-boo and chase. After that William took a nap while we waited for Tyler to get out of class. Finally we took the Metro across town to the Musee d'orday But sadly we had just missed it by 30 minutes. :( Which was a major bummer because that was on the top of my list of things to see in Paris. It is where the impressionist artists keep their work. Like for example Water and the Lilies by Monet ect. But hopefully next time we will be able to go! After missing that museum we decided to go to the Louvre. We walked throughout the beautiful gardens and saw the fountains, flowers and statues. When everyone thinks of the Louvre they think of the glass Pyramid but what people don't realize is it was a palace first. The Palace was HUGE! I was overwhelmed by how much paintings, statues, and other things were stored there. In fact we were there for 2 hours and we only saw the highlights. Thankfully my father in law was there because he had been to the louvre before and let us know what was worth seeing. After the Louvre we went out to dinner which was delicious. Wayne sadly had to catch a plane back to Germany so he had to speed though his meal but he was very kind and payed for our dinner and a dessert. Instead of getting desert and the restaurant we decided to get another crepe. But this time a Nutella crepe. Soo good!
        The next day was Saturday and sadly we had to leave Paris. We packed up our things and basically ran to the train station. We then took a bullet train for 3 hours down to Leborn. I know why the French countryside is so famous. It is definitely a beautiful place. Then in Leborn we took a bus to Bordeaux from there we took a smaller train to Arcachon. Once we got here we walked up a VERY STEEP  hill up to our hotel. Ville Regina was a hotel from 1889 and absolutely beautiful. Once we entered our room I already felt more relaxed. It overlooks the pool, it has a kitchenette, separate bedroom and a separate soaker tub from the toilet. So much space compared to our hotel in Paris! After that we went to Casino (a local grocery store here) in which Tyler was in heaven! He loved all the European ingredients and because of that he has been the one who has mostly been cooking. (which I love) So far Arcachon has been much more relaxing than Paris and much different too. We pretty much love it here. We've been here a week and I would go on about this weeks adventures but this post is already really long. So until next time!


 

Paris the City of Love

Bonjour! How are you all!? I've decided it is about time to write about my adventures thus far on this fantastic journey Tyler, William, and I are taking. So I will begin my story on last sunday. Tyler and I decided to go to sacrament meeting that morning but because of our procrastination (oh man we are bad at that one!) we had to skip out on the rest of church to clean our house and finish packing. We were able to finish around 3:00 so we ended up leaving around then to drive to Chicago. We found out that if we stayed in a hotel near the airport we were able to save big bucks on parking. We slept pretty well given the circumstances (hello we were going to fly to paris tuesday night!). The only down side to the hotel idea is we had to check out by 12:00. Which meant we had to take a shuttle to the airport and wait way longer than was necessary to get on the plane. We arrived at the airport around 1:00 and we checked our bags and went through security lickety split. So we had about 3 hours of waiting time before we could board the plane. So we ate some yummy oriental food and waited. Thankfully William loved running all over the airport so all we had to do was chase him around while the other parent watched the bags. So after we had waited those lovely 3 hours the stewardess made an announcement that basically our plane was late. So we had to wait an additional hour to board the plane. After we boarded a huge thunder storm decided to appear. So we had to wait that out too. They actually closed the airport for about 2 hours. There was also another thunderstorm coming in right behind the other one so we were worried our flight would be canceled but thankfully around 8:30 we took off!
    The actual 8 hour flight was decent. They had a baby bassinet for William to sleep in and the food was decent all I have to complain about is when people are trying to sleep shut your freaking mouth! Sadly there was a group of college students going to Africa sitting right behind us and the talked very loudly the whole 8 hours. UGH. I got about 2 hours of sleep which I guess was better than nothing but was way less then I could have gotten. So instead of arriving at 8:30 am paris time we arrived about 11:30. We were able to go through customs was fast because of baby William ( who knew you could get perks like that if you have a kid?) and we got our luggage caught a bus to a stop around our hotel. From there we walked about 5 blocks to our hotel. We were so exhausted all we wanted to do is get to our hotel! Thankfully a very nice frenchman stopped and gave us directions. Once we figured our the way of course the sky decided to rain. And it sure did rain. We had no jackets on and all our luggage got wet. Thankfully we came across a covered bus stop and waited the rain storm out for about 10 minutes. (Rainstorms come and go quickly here it's kind of weird) Thankfully after that we found our hotel and our Friends Eric and Emilee Brazel was waiting for us.
     We then checked in and went to our room. Wow things sure are smaller in Europe! Thankfully then we dropped off our stuff and went to lunch with the our friends. We found a small cafe and had a  fun time. I had a emmental cheese sandwich was basically butter and cheese on a baguette and Tyler had a sausage sandwich which was sausage on a baguette. Both were amazing! The bread here is to die for! Then William and I headed back to take a nap while Eric, Emilee, and Tyler walked around. It sure was hard to wake up after two hours of sleep! The Law group was having diner that night though and I didn't want to miss out! For the first course I had goat cheese salad then the second course I had Roast Duck in a cherry sauce which had delicious scalloped potatoes and then for dessert I had a meringue which a yummy creamy sauce toped with caramel and nuts. MMMM. The french sure do know how to eat! ;)
     On wednesday the law group went on a bus tour looking at all the sights the city has to offer. The Opera house was by far my favorite! It was BEAU! BELISSIMO! GORGEOUS! I only wish we had enough money to actually see an opera there! Maybe next time! :) After that we got dropped off at the paris law school and had two hours for lunch. During lunch I ended up getting a french phone ( no i can't call internationally ) and metro tickets. This took up the WHOLE TIME!  So I ate another sandwich after ward and all the law students went to class. The wives on the other hand went to tour the city! We decided to go to the top of the Eiffel Tower. We were going to take the stairs but because we had little children and aching backs and feet already we decided to take the elevator. It was fantastic! You can see for miles and miles! It was very crowded but almost everyone I have run into has been very kind to me. (maybe its another perk of having a baby) so that lovely and wondrous experience took 2 hours. We then met the husbands and took the metro home. Ate some delicious pain et fromage et pomme (bread with cheese and apple) and crashed for the night! I absolutely love paris and I can see why people fall in love with this city so easily. The french understand all types of beauty and it definitely comes across! Well I am off to go see some more beautiful things the city has to offer now! But I will write soon! Love you all!

Au Revoir!

New Year New Me

Hello Everyone! I know I know you haven't heard from me in a while! Life has just been so incredibly BUSY since the last time I posted! (which was over a year ago...) ((Ooops!)) In my defense having a baby is really really hard! There is a TON of time holding them adoring them ect ect ect.... :) Well with this NEW YEAR 2014 I have decided to be much better! I've decided that  you all get to hear about my family all the time on Facebook and Instagram and so you DO NOT NEED ANOTHER THING TELLING YOU 'Hey this is what my family is doing! Aren't we awesome?!?'. In fact you might feel overwhelmed by Tyler and My various posts about how wonderful our life is going!  So this is the plan. I am starting my blog again not to give you the low down on my family life. I am starting this blog again to share with you what my thoughts, feelings, crafts, and just fun things and MOMENTS that I am enjoying in life. This is my New Years Resolution. I am striving to be more grateful for what I have everyday and I believe this is a great way to share what I think is wonderful about my life. In a way this is going to be an OUTLET for a stay at home mommy that is going nuts because of the cold/hot weather in Iowa! I hope that this ends up going pretty well and of course if you guys don't like my new 'blog'  then at least I can pretend people like it and at least express my thoughts and feelings. :)


So anyway... Today I am grateful for TIME. When I was younger I never understood why extra TIME was such a wonderful thing. I would cram an activity into every single second of every single day. I couldn't stand to be BORED! Now that I am quitting my job I have found that I have TONS of spare time. In which I can do what I choose with. I can clean the house (which I am trying to do because it has been a disaster since I got the job) I can watch my little 13 month old play. I can fiddle around on FB. I can sit here and BLOG. Time is such a wonderful thing and I think it is taken for granted. Last year I would always say  "Oh when Law school is over everything will be better." "When we no longer live in an apartment I will be happy." "When we know what we are going to do with our life everything will be fantastic and we'll be like those families on the commercials." Well now I am FED UP WITH IT! Life is going to be just as hard when Tyler is out of law school. Life is going to be just as sad and frustrating living in a house/ townhouse/ condo/ cardboard box. My family is never going to look like the families on the commercials even if we kind of know what to do! I've decided what makes the difference is choosing to be happy now. Making TIME to be happy. Making TIME to enjoy your family. Making TIME to look at the little things that happen in life everyday that is a good thing or a happy thing. We might be delusional and believe that the future will be brighter. But the way I see it, it's pretty bright right now we just choose not to see it. I have a roof over my head, I have an adorable baby boy, I have food to eat, I have TIME to enjoy my family, my friends, my hobbies. I am surrounded by wonderful people and I am thankful they are around me to influence me to be better. So next time you find yourself looking into the future thinking it will be better than now, Just remember now is great. You just have to look for it.

Thanks all for reading my post! I hope this New Years resolution will change me and maybe change you in the process.

Hannah

Our Nauvoo Temple Trip

 These are the pictures I took from our drive from Iowa City to Nauvoo. They are all taken from the car so  some of them might have a little bit of a reflection. This picture is us crossing the Mississippi River.

 This is Tyler and I crossing into Illinois. :)

 This is the Mississippi River from the temple grounds.

 The Nauvoo Temple. Which was a lot smaller than I thought it would be. But I will say it is one of the most beautiful temples I have ever been in.

 This View was from the River bank. I just loved how you could see the temple from there. It was breath taking how the temple rose up from the trees.

 The top building is a random Building and below that  is the bank of the Mississippi River. (Which was really muddy and gross.) But mostly HUGE! I Couldn't believe that the river froze enough for the pioneers to cross it with wagons!

We found this little treasure on the way home to Iowa City. We both thought it was interesting that there are a lot of signs that just say JESUS on them here.


We didn't stop and look around because Tyler and I were so exhausted. But we will definitely look around old Nauvoo the next temple trip. (since it is our temple after all) Since Nauvoo is 2 hours away, it just makes the temple even more important and difficult to get to. I would encourage those who haven't gone in a while to go. Even if it is far away. It is a great experience to feel close to the lord and to surround yourself with beauty. You will have some of the most memorable memories there. Well at least I have. :)

Love,
The Mellings

Sweet Experience

Today I got a surprise! 3 Packages! :) One was a case for Tyler's Laptop, another a wireless router that M om and Dad Melling promised to send us [with a wonderful gift card to subway for William and I.... YUMMMM!!! BTW thanks Mom and Dad Melling! ;)] and the third package had binders with Tyler's memories and accomplishments placed carefully in sleeves. Mom Melling sent them with a little baby hat (that I assume was Tylers). I immediately started going through his binders! I just couldn't help myself! I guess I'm just a snooper! ;) It was fun going through endless choir announcements for performances, report cards, certificates of excellence, school pictures, and artwork that Tyler had made.  One binder had quite an enchanting story about an armadillo that lost his armor.(Which Tyler wrote and colored the pictures). I don't know if it's the pregnancy hormones or what but I found myself tearing up a little bit. I can see my son growing up just like his daddy. What a wonderful bond they will have too! Like father like son. Even looking at Tyler when he was so little made me think of how much William will look like him! The thought even came to my mind "I can't wait until William gets here and I can read his cute stories about armadillos that lose their armor." So anyway I guess I didn't really need to post about this sweet experience. I could have probably just said on Facebook that I felt close to William today, but I guess I just wanted to express the feelings behind the experience.That it is possible for mothers to feel close to their little ones before they are born. That they are already  sweet little people in our minds. With a bright future and most importantly the love we already feel for them. At least I know for myself that I love my son and I can't wait to hold him in my arms. So I guess here begins the countdown to that first meeting. 12 weeks and counting! :D